What it means to be a passionate partner?

Passion: extreme desire to do something with great interest! A passionate partner is a true gift. Sharing passion with your partner is important to create or enhance intimacy, better communication, share experience, sharing pursuits, shared projects, dedicating time to each other, sharing experiences and enhancing personal growth.

Sharing passion among partners can be a wonderful way to deepen your connection and create a sense of shared excitement and purpose. Here are some suggestions on how to share passion with your partner:

1. Enhance/create intimacy: Passion fires the flames of intimacy. It can create or help build it stronger and better. It makes partners closer than ever. Sex without passion is flowers without smell.

2. Communicate openly: Start by discussing your passions and interests with your partner. Share why these things matter to you and how they bring you joy. Encourage your partner to do the same. This open communication will help you both understand each other's passions better.

3. Show genuine interest: Actively listen to your partner when they talk about their passions. Ask questions, express curiosity, and show genuine interest in what they are sharing. This will make your partner feel valued and supported in pursuing their passions.

4. Share experiences: Find ways to experience each other's passions together. For example, if your partner loves cooking, join them in the kitchen and prepare a meal together. If you enjoy hiking, take your partner on a hike and share the beauty of nature. By participating in each other's passions, you create opportunities for shared experiences and memories.

5. Support each other's pursuits: Encourage and support your partner in pursuing their passions. Offer help, provide resources, and be their cheerleader. Attend their performances, exhibitions, or events related to their passion. Your support will strengthen their commitment and make them feel loved.

6. Collaborate on shared projects: Identify areas where your passions overlap and consider collaborating on a project together. It could be a creative endeavor, a hobby, or a cause you both care about. By working together, you can combine your skills and interests, and create something meaningful as a team.

7. Plan dedicated time: Make sure to set aside dedicated time for each other's passions. Schedule regular date nights or dedicated days to explore and engage in your respective interests. This will reinforce the importance of your partner's passions in your relationship and provide space for individual growth.

8. Be open to new experiences: Be open to trying new things and exploring new passions together. This will allow you to discover shared interests that you both can be passionate about. Attend workshops, classes, or events in areas you both find intriguing and see what sparks your enthusiasm.

9. Encourage personal growth: Recognize that passions and interests can evolve over time. Support your partner's personal growth by encouraging them to explore new avenues and expand their horizons. Be open-minded and embrace the changes that come with individual exploration.

Remember, sharing passion is not about giving up your own interests, but about finding common ground and fostering a supportive and enriching environment where both partners can pursue their passions and grow together. Passion is a very powerful driving force. It motivates one to reach higher and deeper. Find your passion or share the passion of your partner in way that defines you or both!

Further reading: Passion defines many things in life, but at the same time it’s important to be empathetic lover. Read more how to be a empathetic lover here in my previous blog here.

Good partner - Being an empathetic lover - Part 2

In my series about being a good partner, what I believe is being an empathetic lover is extremely important. Showing empathy involves being able to understand and share the feelings of another person. It is an important aspect of building and maintaining healthy relationships, whether it's with friends, family members, colleagues, or romantic partners. Being an empathetic lover means being able to connect with your partner's emotions, and responding to them with sensitivity and care. In my opinion here are some tips for developing empathy in your romantic relationships:

1. Practice active listening: Nobody listens anymore. We have already decided what we want to hear, even before other person had finishing talking. What we can do is pay close attention to what your partner is saying and validate their feelings. Show that you are truly engaged in the conversation by asking questions and reflecting back what you hear.

2. Put yourself in your partner's shoes: What I do is I try to imagine what it would feel like to be in my partner's situation. Empathy requires that I understand and relate to my partner's emotions, even if I don't necessarily agree with him.

3. Communicate effectively: Communication is key in any relationship. Communicate often, communicate more. Be willing to share your own thoughts and feelings, and encourage your partner to do the same. This will help you both develop a deeper understanding of each other.

4. Show affection: Physical touch can be a powerful way to show empathy and support. Hug your partner, hold their hand, or give them a gentle touch on the shoulder to let them know you are there for them.

5. Practice empathy: Put yourself in your partner's shoes and try to imagine how they might be feeling. Empathy requires time and effort. Don't rush your partner to feel better or try to fix their problems for them. Instead, offer your support and patience as they work through their emotions.

Remember, being an empathetic lover is not something that can be learned overnight. It takes practice and a willingness to be vulnerable and open with your partner. With time and effort, you can develop a deep and meaningful connection based on empathy, understanding, and support.

Further reading, do my checkout my blogpost that I wrote previously about how to be a good partner, here, it’s not an exhaustive list, however it’s few top things take makes us better for each other.